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so sick and tired [17 Dec 2007|11:34am]

I'm 22 years old. Yes, I am a lesbian.. I've known since I was 13 and I was attracted to my Jr High Gym Teacher who was straight and not the Young male that all the girls went after. I've never had a girlfriend before, or "experienced" anything in the Lesbian world. I have tons of gay friends girls and guys, but it really upsets me when I get rejected over and over and over.

Does anyone ever feel this way? Is there anyone in Southern California that isn't "shallow" like most of them are. My myspace is www.myspace.com/miseryafi if anyone wants to add me. I could use more friends.

I need advice as well on where to meet NICE WOMEN

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[18 Jan 2007|11:12am]

thanks to the people who responded to my previous post. you said exactely what i was feeling but couldnt find the words for when i was responding to that girl's comment. sometimes i wonder if i do overreact about things (cause that would be something i do). and its nice to know im not the only one who feels that way :)

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[17 Jan 2007|09:48am]

[ mood | agitated ]

this article came out after the golden globes. there's a video of katherine heigl being interviewed and then isaiah washington being interviewed in reference to what happened in the press room (video here...its towards the middle). this article was released today (stating basically the same thing).

i only bring this up because it was brought up in a grey's community. most people are pissed/disappointed about isaiah washington and his mouth. however there are a few people who said it was no big deal and we should let it go. which pissed me off because, to me, "faggot" is a harsh and hateful word. i do not take the use of it lightly (no matter how when or why its used). even using it right now makes my skin crawl. now people are pissed because im pissed at the use of that (and another) word. "The words may carry emotional and prejudice histories, but they don't have to carry that NOW. It's people like yourself that allow that." the words may have no meaning to her but they do to the bigots of the world. and thats why they still have meaning for me.

am i overreacting? does this girl have a point? im still inclined to punch her in the face but i wanted other opinions

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[10 Nov 2006|05:36pm]

hey are there any girls in here from southern california?

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[17 Oct 2006|07:52pm]

Greetings Dames!

I've just joined your wonderful community. It seems like an interesting idea and was wondering if there were going to be any more issues of this magazine? Seems like a really fun project to be involved with.

I've been a 'fag hag' since birth, lol. When I was little my favorite song was about a gay guy coming out, but I didn't know that and my mother only told me this last year! Anyway, I'm sadly a hag with no fag. My best friend in high school was gay and I think I was the first person he told. We lost contact after graduation (-cries-) and I have an e-mail address that supposedly belongs to him, but I'm too afraid to send him an e-mail. It's stupid, but what if he doesn't remember me or doesn't want to talk to me?

Since then I've been stuck in my anti-gay town and state, Pennsylvania. I suppose there are worse states and cities out there, but anything that's anti-gay it bad enough. So I've lost my connection to the gay community and I would love to be involved with it more so here I am. Hoping to contribute and slowly get my foot back into the club. BTW, if you know of any other ways to get connected again, let me know. There aren't that many gay friendly support associations and the like in my area so any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

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[28 Jun 2006|12:23am]

[ mood | groggy ]

Me and my gays went down to pridefest this weekend it was so much fun!! Here are some pix from it!!

Read more...Collapse )

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We'd appreciate your input! [26 Jun 2006|11:11pm]

Hi, I'm posting here because it is glbtq related and I feel strongly that your input can really make a difference. However, if it is not in alignment with the essence of this community, please feel free to release this post.

I want to introduce a brand-new homo/bi/t friendly community: happy_gay_life This is a community dedicated to building a positive glbtq image by sharing joyful and constructive experiences of being glbtq.

Ever wonder why there are so few glbtq stories/movies with happy endings? I did.

I figure out that it has to come from us. We've got to count our blessings and share these lovely moments with each other: the special moments that bring smiles to our faces, that make our hearts sing, that tickle us, that move us to tears of joy ... on a daily basis.

Every time you share a line of joy, you're contributing to creating a better life for yourself and building a positive glbtq image.

Come! Join us and have some fun!

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[18 Jun 2006|04:32pm]

[ mood | dizzy ]

I'm sorry, but I have to leave this community. I've realized it in a lot of ways just doesn't agree with my view.

Thanks for the time here though, good luck with everything in life!

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[15 Jun 2006|09:38pm]

[ mood | sleepy ]

Hi I'm bored so I figured I'd introduce myself since I'm new to the community.

My name is Jordan and I'm 16. I am straight but just recently have become a fag hag. I have always loved gay men and I've always had a few mutal gay friends. But after my cousin recently came out of the closet I became closer to my gay friends. Now I don't think a gay has gone by that I havent talked 2 my main gay and we spend every weekend together. It has been the best time of my life!

They have worn me out though they keep like randomly dragging me around all of downtown! But its been a blast. I'm really looking forward to next weekend which is PrideFest! We are getting a hotel room downtown and staying down there! It is going to be so much fun!

Well that is all for now. You will all definetely see me around the community!


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Show some love [01 May 2006|08:23pm]

Yesterday I was in a great rage because I saw for the first time one of the horrible Fred Phelps's propaganda videos. It filled me with anger, and shock, and contempt, and sadness.

But then, i've found this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sfln-GJ2D6E&search=Fred%20Phelps&watch2
and i kept crying for nearly an hour. It's a very moving video, very well made, very true. And it made me want to DO something, even if just a little something.
So this is it: watch it and tell me what you think. The message I want to bring is: your are not alone.


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Well... [24 Mar 2006|10:05pm]

[ mood | bored ]

My goodness, I'm been looking at this community forever, and forgot about introducing myself!

Hello, I'm a faghag, and I happen to live in a homophobic town. Go figure. I love standing for gay rights, and I just wanted to say hi to you all.

This community rocks, by the way.

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Cross-dressing is fun [27 Feb 2006|11:23pm]

[ mood | high ]

So, a few nights ago, one of my most cherished boys and I decided to try out cross-dressing. Namely, we wore each other's clothes, haha.

and here's the result...Collapse )

Oh the times we have together, I wouldn't trade them for the world.


PS: x-posted in faghags and flamedames

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[02 Feb 2006|12:17pm]

[ mood | anxious ]

Hi guys!

I'm Mylene Mendiola and I'm deaf. I've been bisexual since I was 14 years old when I discovered my feelings of why I like boys and girls in different ways. so I dated 3 deaf guys and two deaf girls through 4 years. Now I'm 22 years old and still single for few months.

I'm new to this community so I would love to make new friends with bisexual, lesbian and gay ppl, if you wanna. :)

How are you doing? Me? I'm so whacked out with my schoolwork and jobs, damn it! lol

I would love for you to add me in LJ if you wanna, I don't mind at all. :)

All of you can contact me by:
Email addresses:

Aim : LoRoseG
YM : girlpinay83

Let me tell you the recognition: Reddish brown hair with the highlights; shorty, sporty, slim, and slender; blur brown freckled; small hands and feet;the tips of my cheeks turn pink when I'm embarrassed or shy or when it comes to guys or girls; always in cool and casual clothes because I'm tomboy girl, ;).

Fears: be alone, losing someone that whom I love and Alligator

I'm still the same Leney in lots of ways -mischievous, daring, trusting, fun-loving, good, smart,outgoing, quick-witted, often cynical, amusing, sweet and very loyal to my friends.

First Rate: Cute and Handsome or pretty and sexy is cool, but it's not about the looks for me. It's more about personality. I like a guy or girl who's mellow, understanding, down-to-earth and sweet. A guy or girl definitely has to have a good sense of humor and an intelligent, I guess I want just an overall picture. the first thing I notice in a guy or girl is the way he/she presents himself/herself and carries himself/herself. If he/she's confident, then he/she's very true to himself/herself and that attracts me to a guy or a girl.

If you have any questions or anything, just contact me anytime. :)

Here's the pic of me


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whoring for approval [01 Feb 2006|10:58am]

Hey Girls, come join!

Join doll_sex now!

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[17 Jan 2006|05:53pm]

where to find single lesbians in so cal? any here?

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[ mood | angry ]

Pennsylvania's families are under attack by the right-wing Pennsylvania Family Institute. On Tuesday, January 24, 2006, they will introduce an amendment that would ban civil unions and threaten domestic partnership benefits, hospital visitation rights and much more for all unmarried couples.

Same-sex couples are already denied the right to marry under Pennsylvania's Defense of Marriage Act. This amendment is unnecessary and divisive.

Please sign the petition to protect Pennsylvania's families and ask your friends to do the same.http://www.libertypa.org/main.cfm?actionId=globalShowStaticContent&screenKey=userPetition&htmlID=4466&s=libertyPA

x-posted everywhere

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SORRY IF NOT ALLOWED. [08 Jan 2006|01:26pm]

If you're going to MARDI-GRAS in one month 3 weeks and 3 days OR you want to.

PLEASE JOIN this community!!


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IT'S FINISHED! [03 Jan 2006|10:17pm]

[ mood | accomplished ]

Hey Ladies!
Just wanted to let you know that the project I was working on specifically involving this communtiy is now complete. This is probably isn't actually the final version, because I would like to continue to work on it, but it's what I turned into my professor. Once again, I can't thank everyone enough for the help you provided. If you would like a copy, please email me at pinkflamingo04@yahoo.com and I'll send it as an attachment.


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last minute question [07 Dec 2005|09:01pm]

[ mood | stressed ]

Okay, so I'm in the last minute throws of my project (the end is in sight!) and I had something interesting pop up. So quick question--interpret as you will...

Do you think you're over-protective of your gay friends? Do you find yourself wanting to protect them at times (for instance, from stupid people in the world)?
(and this question may be more applicable to a younger audience...I don't know, I'm just interested as to what you have to say)

If this doesn't make sense, let me know and I'll give an example. I've been writing all week...and have no idea if I'm making sense anymore....

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Camp Followers [28 Nov 2005|08:59pm]

[ mood | giggly ]

So in the midst of doing my research I came across the most hilarious quote and I just had to share it. The Joy of Gay Sex (1977) has a small snippet on fag hags, though they refer to them as "Camp Followers" (interesting, huh?) The quote reads (and I kid you not):

"Straight people become camp followers for many reasons. Some of them, to put it bluntly, are regarded by others straights as freaks (they're grotesquely fat or albinos or physically handicapped in some way) and only with gay men do they discover a warm, accepting society."

ALBINOS!? Frickin' hilariously (no offensive to any albinos out there)...My how times have changed....

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